Journey to our Children

"If you can'?" said Jesus,"EVERYTHING is possible for him who believes." Mark 9:23

1-10-09

Sorry it has been so long since I posted. Life has been busy around here. I only have a few minutes this morning to post. Donavan is back a sleep; Darrin and Zack are hunting this morning. They should be back here very shortly. Our Christmas was wonderful. It was our first Christmas with children and God truly blessed us. Darrin is doing well (I will fill everyone in later on his spinal stenosis diagnosis). Well Zack is doing fine. He finally finished up his homebound tutoring afterschool this past week from missing so much from his surgery in October. He is very proud his grades are back up again. He has been such a joy to us and especially Darrin. Donavan is growing so fast. He will be 7 months old tomorrow. He truly has a personality. It amazes us to watch him. He loves Zack very much too!! Well the latest on Donavan: They decided to wait until March to pursue termination due to a delayed court date for biomom's treatment plan. She stil visits on and off however she still has not cleaned up her life yet. Her brother did move down and her mom is suppost to be down in Feb. I must say I'm not too comfortable with that. However I know God is good and faithful. He has all of this. Well I'm sure most are feeling the pressure of the economic downfall going on. Please know you are all in our prayers. We also ask you to keep us in your prayers. Darrin and I are facing alot with finances right now and the added pressures from Donavan's situation. Yet God keeps telling me to keep the faith and trust Him!!! Well Darrin and I are going to our first Foster Care Association meeting today. We are joining and we also get some of our training with them. Donavan will be going with us. He is still to young to know what they are speaking about. Zack will be spending several hours with mom today.(pray for her!!! ha ha ha) She loves him to death!! Zack was able to spend a few nights out at Darrin's parents over the holidays! He had a blast. Well got to go and get ready. Love you all!! Dobin

History

Well we actually started this journey February 2005. This is when we received a packet in the mail for no reason with pictures of children in the state system in need of adopted families. Now I will say that two days prior, my husband and I saw a billboard with a child's picture needing a forever family; this is what God used to spark the interest. That is when Darrin and I started discussing in extent about adoption. We spent alot of days together in prayer and seeking Gods confirmation. We did not want to walk into something just based on an emotion that would change. We needed to know this was God's purpose for us. We are unable to have children of our own; and honestly up to this point we were very content in our marriage. Then God decided this was the path He wanted us on. March of 2005 we contacted our local Department of Social Services and requested information. We had our application,fingerprints, references, pictures, along with background information finally turned in by May of 2005. So we have been on this journey for over 3 years. Now I must say 8 months was spent in building a house due to the trailer we lived in just would not pass all the fire codes. I must say God has taught us a great deal through this process. We have learned so much from the people God has put in our path to help us, encourage us, and pray for us. Most of all Darrin and I have become much more dependant on the Lord Jesus. It can be very discouraging at times than at others it can be the most rewarding thing you could experience. My husband has said we have been pregnant waiting on our children for such a long time that as they walk through our door for the first time we are not going to know how to act!

Meet our Dogs

Meet our Dogs:

The Black Dog is Cole. I guess you could say he is the lead.
The Brown Dog is Duke. I guess you could say he is the loyal but not very smart one.

Then there is LITTLE BIT. Yes you guessed it; she is the one under the covers on the couch. From her point of view she does not believe she is a dog.

Cole and Duke

Cole and Duke

Little Bit

Little Bit